Quote of the Week

"One cool judgment is worth a thousand hasty councils."
- Woodrow Wilson

Sunday, February 7, 2016

What was he thinking?

This week was an interesting one at the office. A coworker has found himself in a lot of trouble. I mean life changing, things will never be the same for him and his family trouble. 

This week there were hushed conversations and gatherings around computers with the local paper's websites story displayed, with our coworker's picture of him in an orange jumpsuit. All with shocked and saddened coworkers shaking their heads in disbelief for what is going on with a well liked coworker. Often the rhetorical question of "what was he thinking" being asked.

None of us were there or involved with the situation, so only speculations and therories have been discussed. Some logical, some down right stupid. But it does remind me how somebody's life can change incredibly, drasticly and permamently in a matter of seconds.

The more I think about that, the more I think about the very world I know (and the world you know) can come undone in mere moments, at anytime. If during a critical moment in time poor choices lead to more poor choices, then panic, then really bad decisions or actions the results can be irreversible. Kind of like a horror or crime drama version of the 1970's sitcom Three's Company.

What saddens me the most about this current event is the reaction of some of my coworkers. The "what was he thinking" type comments, in my opinion, are a normal and legitimate response. It is a good question. The reactions I don't like are the ones along the lines of "gee just when you think you know someone" type of comments. At least for now it's too early to completely condem someone's entire life and character over one very troubling event.

Humans are interesting creatures to say the least. We're inquisitive to the point where our minds demand the answers to the things we don't know. Our minds demand answers so much, if we don't have the information to satisfy our curiosity, we will make it up on our own by speculating, theorizing and jumping to the quickest conclusion that makes sense at that very moment.

The saddest part about this process is once we make up our minds based on our imagination fueled on some incomplete details; we won't believe the actual truth if it doesn't align with our personal theory that became "fact" without knowing the vast majority of the information.

Saturday, January 30, 2016

Bathroom habits of the worthless worker.

My faith in mankind slipped down a few notches a few days ago. While washing my hands after using the restroom at work; I noticed that someone had spit their gum into the sink to my right.

Seriously Coworker? Just spit your gum into the sink and walk away? If I owned the company and I found out who did this, that person would have a new title: Former Employee.

Besides being extremely disrespectful to the company and the Team Members who keep our bathrooms clean, it just show general thoughtlessness and lack of caring. And that the type of person I would not allow on my Team.

If someone is so thoughtless and self centered to spit gum into a sink, leaving  it there for someone else to clean up; then how much effort and more importantly how much care would they put into their work?

Sunday, December 27, 2015

If the Facebook status you're copying and pasting says "this is not a hoax" it's a hoax and you're an idiot

If the Facebook status you're copying and pasting says "this is not a hoax" it's a hoax and you're an idiot. There. I said it. Somebody had to.

You see this from time to time. Some celebrity or big time CEO is giving away a thousand dollars to everyone who shares their post for some lame reason or another. "It's not a hoax! A friend of mine saw the story on the Channel 6 10pm News."

When a mutual friend points out kindly that it's total BS, your friend who shared the Internet chain mail usually replies "LOL yeah I thought so, but you never know."

No, you didn't think so, yes I do know. You're an idiot for thinking some body is going to give you a lot of money for doing absolutely nothing. That does not happen. What does happen is people make you look like a complete moron by getting you to share a bogus status.

Saturday, September 5, 2015

Too Bad She Can't Be Fired.

So now the latest chapter in this annoying and unneeded story of marriage equality in America is of some County Clerk who is setting (or at least was yesterday as I type this) in jail for contempt because she refuses to sign marriage licenses for same sex couples.

She was elected to serve the public. If her personal beliefs interfere with her service, she should resign and find something else to do that wouldn't undermine her personal morals. Seems pretty simple to me, but I guess she'd rather try to make a point. The only point she's made to me is that she's a self-centered asshole.

While I respect her willings to stand up for her beliefs, she is doing it all wrong. This is just like the stories we've seen of people getting a job in a deli or a grocery store, then refusing to handle pork products because of their beliefs (or something similar). If your job requires you to do something you're against, you need to work somewhere else. 

I really wish we could get past this practice of making a court case out of everything that disagrees with our personal beliefs. If you don't want to give same sex couples a marriage license, don't be a County Clerk whose job requires signing marriage licenses. If your religion forbids you from even touching pork, don't work where touching pork is part of the job. If you work for the Catholic Church and they won't pay for your birth control, buy your own birth control or work for someone who will. If a baker won't bake you a cake for your wedding, give your money to another baker who will.

Forcing someone to do something they don't want to do doesn't work very well. Neither does refusing to do something that was clearly expected from you. There is no reason for either when there is an easy option to do something else.

So this County Clerk sits in jail because she is an elected official who refuses to do what she was elected to do. Too bad she can't be fired. It would save a lot of unneeded drama.

A lot of unneeded drama could be saved if the government simply got out of the marriage business in the first place. Like I suggested here: Solving The World's Problems, One At A Time: Same Sex Marriage

Saturday, August 22, 2015

Moving to Canada Are You? Say Hi to Randy for Me....

With over a year to go to the next Presidential Elections, I already have friends from both the extreme ends of the political aisle threatening to move to Canada if the current candidate they dislike the most wins the Presidency.

I guess I will be that friend who will say what everyone else is thinking right now:
No, no you won't. You'll get better results if you hold your breathe until they drop out of the race. If you do that, you might pass out and when you awake, you just might realize how childish your being and decide to act like an adult.

Every election cycle it seems some Hollywood actor, celebrity  or semi celebrity makes the same claim, makes the news for two days, then never follows through. In fact the only people like that who've actually moved to Canada are Randy Quaid and his wife, and that just because they're batshit crazy.

So to everyone who's claiming they'll move to Canada if the candidate or even anyone from the political party you despise wins the election: are you as crazy as Randy Quaid, or will you please start acting like an adult?

Thursday, July 30, 2015

Nobody Would Be Outraged if Cecil the Lion Didn't Have a Name

This week's internet outrage is Cecil the Lion being killed in Zimbabwe by an American who was on safari. The poor guy paid out, as reported on the internet, over $50,000 for the hunt and is now getting death threats for it.

Funny thing is, now it seems Zimbabwe officials don't understand the international anger. Why so many people are outraged over the killing of one Lion. It's simple really, the lion had a name.

Humans are very emotional creatures. Especially over things we attach ourselves to. And the best way to attach ourselves to an animal is to give it a name. Don't believe me? Try raising chickens and have your young child name them.

Now I could go on and on about wildlife conservation, but I won't waste my typing time. There is plenty of other blogs and articles out there about how it applies to our current internet outrage. Besides, I feel Wildlife Conservation is in some ways a lot like many other debatable topics like Abortion, Climate Change, the U.S. Constitution, etc. Either you get it or you don't and your mind is made up regardless of what I write. Right now I just want to explain the outrage.

A few days ago no one had ever heard of Cecil the Lion. Now some of those people are threatening the life of the guy who shot it. Yet they aren't threatening the lives of anyone else who has killed any of the roughly 600 lions that are hunted each year.

But then again those lions didn't have a name. There is nothing to draw a personal connection to. Nobody would be outraged if Cecil the Lion didn't have a name.

Friday, July 17, 2015

Semper Fi Sargent Holmquist

The sun sets tonight on a flag flown at half staff on my font yard. It has been lowered in honor for the four Marines who were murdered yesterday in Tennessee. Another senseless act. It's bad enough when something senseless like this happens, but it's even worse when it involves people and families you know.

This morning I learned that one of the Marines is a native of my small town of 1,500 people. It is one of those little speed bump on the highway towns where everybody knows everybody. Directions are giving by turning at someone's house or farm, instead of street names and avenue numbers. Like many around me right, I'm still kind of in shock.

Lowering the flag today was a different experience for me that is hard to explain. It was a very surreal experience. Something that happened over a thousand miles away has a very local and personal tie. I lowered my flag in respect for four fallen Marines. One of the Marine's mothers lives three miles down the road from me.

Semper Fi Sargent Holmquist

Friday, June 26, 2015

I have no problem at all with marriage equality, but I have a problem with today's Supreme Court ruling.

As I've said many times before, I don't care about gay marriage. I don't think marriage of ANY kind should be a concern of any government. It's a personal/ spiritual/ religious thing between individuals. Far as I'm concerned, as long as it's consensual and you leave the kids & animals alone, marry whatever you want.

I also have no problem with an individual or a church refusing to marry anyone. ALL views on marriage need to be respected. If a church won't marry you, go to a different church that agrees with your personal convictions and morals.

That is the only problem with today's ruling. Mark my words: within a month we'll being hearing about a couple suing a church that refuses to marry them.

Well, that's not the only problem  with today's ruling. The bigger problem, which not many seem notice, with today's ruling is there was a ruling to begin with. The Supreme Court should have rejected the case. There is nothing in the U.S> Constitution in regards to marriage. Per the 10th Amendment of the Constitution marriage laws should be handled by the States.

Today's ruling was a blatant overreach of the Federal government's power. But they will get a pass because the majority of the people are like me and don't care one way or the other about gay marriage.

Related Post:
Solving The World's Problems, One At A Time: Same Sex Marriage

Wednesday, June 24, 2015

My thoughts on the Confederate flag debacle

My thoughts on the Confederate flag debacle:

1) My thoughts / opinions don't matter. 
It's a state issue if a flag is flown at its Capital or part of their State flag. The citizens of each State should decide for themselves if the flag is flown when and where. They should not care what people elsewhere think. Especially the talking heads on Fox News and CNN, the loud mouths on talk radio, or any politician or celebrity who will say anything they think is trendy or what the general public wants to hear.

2) The Confederate flag shouldn't be flown at the Capitals.
None of the 13 southern States that made up the Confederacy belong to the Confederacy any longer. The only flags that should be flying over the State government buildings should be the US flag and the State flag.

3) I have no problem with the Confederate flag being part of a State flag.
It was a major historical part of the Southern states (and our country for that matter).

4) The Confederate flag should fly over Confederate war cemeteries and memorials.
The people buried there died for that flag. While a major factor, slavery was not the only reason for the war and why they fought.

Around a half million Americans died during the Civil War, millions more were crippled, entire cities were burned to the ground and we should not forget that. We need to remember and learn from our history, before we repeat our mistakes.

As I said above, slavery was not the only reason for the war. State and individual rights were being trampled on by an ever growing Federal government and there was very poor economy (especially in the South) that caused a lot of division. Sound familiar?

No, I'm not suggesting we are heading towards another civil war, but we are on a path of self-destruction due to our country getting more and more divided as the two main political parties more farther and farther from their base and lean more and more extreme. We are repeating the same mistakes that lead to the War Between the States. A nation dividing itself over a host of issues that could be resolved with some effort, under an ever expanding and controlling Federal government.

What bothers me about this big push the most is the half baked thought that it will improve race relations. It will put just as big of a dent into racism as Prohibition put a dent into alcoholism. But it's a quick feel good action for those who feel we need to do something, yet aren't willing to do something that involves dealing with the real issue.

Taking a rebel flag away from a racist won't fix the racist. It will just make the racist blend in so it won't be an eyesore that reminds people there is evil in this world.

Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Times have changed

This picture got my attention this morning on my Facebook feed. The New York City skyline during Easter 1956. Can you even imagine the outrage of this was attempted in this day and age or political correctness?

There would be a huge campaign, by some group of activists who literally have nothing better to do,to have this horribly "intolerant" display that is forcing someone else's religious view down our throats taken down.

My have time's changed. There used to be a time when a simple display like this for an important religious holiday for major religion in this country wouldn't bother non-believers. 

Unfortunately now we leave in a time when it seems no one can do anything without a protest by people who have nothing better to do than protest. We've been over ran by adult children.